Finding a partner is quite difficult in itself. You want someone who is attentive, intelligent and funny. You want someone who gives you wings and makes you believe in fairy tales. However, some find it more difficult than others to find the rare pearl.
This is the case with beautiful people. This may seem paradoxical since everyone will admit that one of the essential criteria of a partner is his appearance. We need to be attracted to his or her beloved so that the alchemy and sexual attraction persist throughout the relationship.
However, beautiful people have a hard time finding the right shoe because they often meet people who are only interested in their physique. People who don’t really want to know them and who only want a superficial relationship. So what are the 5 real reasons that prevent these beautiful people from finding a sincere partner?
1. He or she is not enough … for me
Handsome people always have the impression of compromising on the physical appearance of their partner. It is not their fault that they feel this way, the press has given them a deceptive view of self-worth. We live in a world where physical beauty is most important. Our self-esteem depends on the number of likes we get on Instagram and Facebook.
Some companies even list their hiring candidates according to the number of subscribers they have! This swelling of the ego of beauty is completely linked to social networks because it gives beautiful people the impression that they deserve better only because they are attractive.
Their beauty becomes like a reward that must be deserved and, therefore, for them no one is ever good enough. They always think that there is someone more beautiful waiting for them! This way of thinking prevents them from seeing the truth that has always been before their eyes. They can have their soul mate by their side, for several months or years, without realizing it!
Handsome people have this idea that the grass is always greener elsewhere. When they get the attention of a person, they don’t really know what to do with it. For this reason, they often lose opportunities to make real connections because they are waiting for a fairy tale that probably does not exist.
2. Everyone is replaceable
Nowadays and in our time, finding someone new is very easy. With all the dating sites that exist, a pretty girl or an attractive man does not even need to leave their house to arrange four or five romantic dates.
By putting themselves in the category of beautiful people, they know that they will have no problem replacing their current partner (the) and finding someone who will be interested in them. Therefore, beautiful people tend to easily abandon certain relationships because they know they are attractive.
3. Too many choices
It’s the classic syndrome: I don’t want to put all my eggs in one basket. However, by keeping their options too open, they never really engage in a romantic relationship. They give everyone a little time and, therefore, no one can really get their attention because they do not give them the opportunity.
They too often end up in love triangles which can last a very long time because beautiful people find it difficult to make a final decision in love. They are afraid that there is someone better elsewhere. It is possible to love several people at the same time but by keeping all their options open, they close themselves to real relationships.
We must not forget that beauty is not eternal. Choosing someone only on physical attraction will not make a relationship happy, fulfilled and stable. By playing this game too much, beautiful people end up alone because the people around them are fed up with being just an option and they go looking elsewhere for someone who really loves them.
4. He or she becomes a fantasy but never a reality
When beauty is the first thing you see, it can be difficult to really get to know someone. The truth is, beautiful people are often very insecure. They get this feeling because they feel like their beauty is the only thing they have and the only thing others see. Hence the famous phrase of Lana Del Rey: “Will you still love me when I am no longer young and beautiful?”
These beautiful people are people we want or we don’t want people we need. They represent a fantasy but never anything serious. Yet they can be a dream and a reality. Unfortunately, few people give them the opportunity to show what is hidden behind this perfect facade.
With a simpler person, there is a sense of security; one has the impression that he or she will not abandon us because he/she has found better. Handsome people are followed by a certain number of prejudices: superficial (the), (prince (ss), greedy for money, egocentric, etc … Their appearance gives them a reputation that they never asked for and their beauty gives them an inaccessible side.
If, by chance, a beautiful person succeeds in finding a partner; very quickly jealousy will take hold. A beautiful girl or an attractive man surely has many friends of the opposite sex who are only waiting for one thing: to take the coveted place of the partner. This person can also have a job based on their appearance, which will all the more fuel the jealousy of the partner.
Some people like the idea that their partner is like a trophy. But this feeling is quickly overshadowed by the fear of losing this person. The other never feels up to it and always has the impression of being in competition with all the people around his or her beloved.
Many people are afraid of being rejected by these beautiful people and therefore do not even try to approach them. For them it is as if they were on display: you can look but neither approach nor touch.