When it comes to leaving a violent relationship, everyone talks about it like it’s the easiest thing to do. <><><>
They can all speak, but YOU did the right thing and I am proud of you!<><><>
I want you to know that it doesn’t matter that it took you so long to find the courage to leave. <><><>
It doesn’t matter if you went back there several times after he attracted you with his lies that broke you.<><><>
Only you know how painful and humiliating it was to hear him tell you that you are ugly and unworthy. <><><>
Telling you that you couldn’t leave because you couldn’t survive without him.<><><>
Tell you that no one would want you for fear that someone would treat you better.<><><>
Make fun of you because you think you can live without him, when in fact it was he who was afraid of losing you, and he who needed you.<><><>
Being in a violent relationship fundamentally changes you in a way that is difficult to even describe. <><>
It is very painful and you become a different person, without even realizing what is going on.<><>
These odious relationships and these vile partners gradually destroy you from the inside. <><><>
You slowly feel exhausted … until one day there is nothing left. <>You are exhausted and numb.<><><>
You become insensitive to the world, insensitive to emotions and you stop worrying about yourself and what is happening to you.<><><>
What you are going through is so painful that you no longer really care what will happen and how it will end. <><><>
You just need to stop it.<><><>
There is a limit to the pain that a person is able to endure and no matter what you have done and how you have done to deal with your partner’s abusive nature, everything is acceptable. <><><>
Whatever difficult choices you had to make to get out of it, you can be proud of yourself today, and these choices are in no way a reflection of you as a person.<><><>
They are simply the result of continuous abuse by a vicious man who did not have the right to do to you what he did to you.<><><>
If you’ve been there, know that there is nothing wrong with that. <>You got out of it.<><><>
You stayed in one piece and for now, that’s all that matters.<><><>
No matter what you had to resort to to get out of it, it doesn’t matter. <><><>
It got you out of there and that’s something few people can say, so be proud of yourself.<><><>
It takes time before you learn to forget what made you live and what made you.<><><>
It takes time to rebuild and start from scratch.<><><>
It’s okay to feel lost right now. <>It is normal to feel weak and even miss this person at times.<><>
Even if it was<><> the worst love … <><>feelings still need time to disappear.<><>
It will take time before you become yourself again. <><><>
Before you can look in the mirror and recognize the woman you are.<><><>
For so long, you have relied on the most destructive type of love, that right now you no longer know how to live without it. <><><>
Don’t feel like there is something wrong with you about feeling like that. <><><>
There is no right way to deal with abuse. <>Let yourself go at a pace that suits you.<><><>
Don’t feel bad about thinking it would change.<><><>
I know that’s probably why you stayed so long, but I also know it’s okay. <><><>
You trust people, even when they don’t deserve it, and it’s not something to be ashamed of.<><><>
You are so strong. <><><>
First, for having endured it all, then for surviving the violence, and only you know exactly how brutal it was, and in the end, for being away. <><><>
The strength it took to get out of it shows how tough and resilient you are.<><><>
You stayed that long because you believed it. <><><>
You wanted to believe that things would be better. <>You wanted to believe that he would get the help he needed.<><><>
You desperately wanted to believe that he would never use violence again … but when you realized that your hopes were in vain, you did the most difficult thing: you left.<><><>
And wherever you are at the level of your healing, know that I am proud of you. <>You did the right thing.<><>
You have been brave. <>And for that, you deserve all the praise and the comfort of the world.<><>
There will be days so dark that you will not have the strength to get up. <><><>
There will be days when you will question yourself and doubt your choices. <><><>
There will be obstacles on your path to healing and during these times, remember what you did.<><><>
Remember how strong and courageous you had to be and take pride in yourself!<><><>
The pain you are feeling right now is proof that you are about to take control of your life. <><><>
And with each step you take forward, you get rid of the pain it has left you and regain control of your life.<><><>
When it comes to leaving a violent relationship, everyone talks about it like it’s the easiest thing to do. <><><>
They can all speak, but YOU did the right thing and I am proud of you!<><><>
I want you to know that it doesn’t matter that it took you so long to find the courage to leave. <><><>
It doesn’t matter if you went back there several times after he attracted you with his lies that broke you.<><><>
Only you know how painful and humiliating it was to hear him tell you that you are ugly and unworthy. <><><>
Telling you that you couldn’t leave because you couldn’t survive without him.<><><>
Tell you that no one would want you for fear that someone would treat you better.<><><>
Make fun of you because you think you can live without him, when in fact it was he who was afraid of losing you, and he who needed you.<><><>
Being in a violent relationship fundamentally changes you in a way that is difficult to even describe. <><>
It is very painful and you become a different person, without even realizing what is going on.<><>
These odious relationships and these vile partners gradually destroy you from the inside. <><><>
You slowly feel exhausted … until one day there is nothing left. <>You are exhausted and numb.<><><>
You become insensitive to the world, insensitive to emotions and you stop worrying about yourself and what is happening to you.<><><>
What you are going through is so painful that you no longer really care what will happen and how it will end. <><><>
You just need to stop it.<><><>
There is a limit to the pain that a person is able to endure and no matter what you have done and how you have done to deal with your partner’s abusive nature, everything is acceptable. <><><>
Whatever difficult choices you had to make to get out of it, you can be proud of yourself today, and these choices are in no way a reflection of you as a person.<><><>
They are simply the result of continuous abuse by a vicious man who did not have the right to do to you what he did to you.<><><>
If you’ve been there, know that there is nothing wrong with that. <>You got out of it.<><><>
You stayed in one piece and for now, that’s all that matters.<><><>
No matter what you had to resort to to get out of it, it doesn’t matter. <><><>
It got you out of there and that’s something few people can say, so be proud of yourself.<><><>
It takes time before you learn to forget what made you live and what made you.<><><>
It takes time to rebuild and start from scratch.<><><>
It’s okay to feel lost right now. <>It is normal to feel weak and even miss this person at times.<><>
Even if it was<><> the worst love … <><>feelings still need time to disappear.<><>
It will take time before you become yourself again. <><><>
Before you can look in the mirror and recognize the woman you are.<><><>
For so long, you have relied on the most destructive type of love, that right now you no longer know how to live without it. <><><>
Don’t feel like there is something wrong with you about feeling like that. <><><>
There is no right way to deal with abuse. <>Let yourself go at a pace that suits you.<><><>
Don’t feel bad about thinking it would change.<><><>
I know that’s probably why you stayed so long, but I also know it’s okay. <><><>
You trust people, even when they don’t deserve it, and it’s not something to be ashamed of.<><><>
You are so strong. <><><>
First, for having endured it all, then for surviving the violence, and only you know exactly how brutal it was, and in the end, for being away. <><><>
The strength it took to get out of it shows how tough and resilient you are.<><><>
You stayed that long because you believed it. <><><>
You wanted to believe that things would be better. <>You wanted to believe that he would get the help he needed.<><><>
You desperately wanted to believe that he would never use violence again … but when you realized that your hopes were in vain, you did the most difficult thing: you left.<><><>
And wherever you are at the level of your healing, know that I am proud of you. <>You did the right thing.<><>
You have been brave. <>And for that, you deserve all the praise and the comfort of the world.<><>
There will be days so dark that you will not have the strength to get up. <><><>
There will be days when you will question yourself and doubt your choices. <><><>
There will be obstacles on your path to healing and during these times, remember what you did.<><><>
Remember how strong and courageous you had to be and take pride in yourself!<><><>
The pain you are feeling right now is proof that you are about to take control of your life. <><><>
And with each step you take forward, you get rid of the pain it has left you and regain control of your life.<><><>
