If I could give you romantic advice, I would tell you never to look back at those who did not know how to appreciate you. <><><>
Why ? <>Because if they knew how to appreciate you, you wouldn’t even have to look back. <>They would always be by your side!<><><>
If at this moment you cross a difficult time, know that you are not alone. <><><>
Know that I am here for you, and that I know how terrible it is to suffer because of an ex who was not worthy of one of your tears.<><><>
It never stopped me from crying an entire river every time I dreamed of her face, and every time I missed her sense of humor. <><><>
But that didn’t mean I was weak, it just showed that I was human.<><><>
And in all this misery, I realized certain things.<><><>
First, you must reach down to be able to rise to this healthy place and revealing where everything suddenly starts to make sense: every tear you shed, every argument you have crossed and every moment of anger made you explode.<><><>
All the missed opportunities to fix things and all the treatment he inflicted on you. <><><>
Over time, all of these little things begin to reveal an overview that shows you that the current situation is exactly as it should be.<><><>
As difficult as it may seem to understand all of this now, I promise you it will make more sense in just a few weeks. <><><>
Unfortunately, you have to go through all the stages of mourning before you get to this good place – but it will happen for sure.<><><>
What I am trying to tell you is this: if the bottom of your heart you KNOW that the break was the best decision for you, be proud of yourself and stop doubting.<><><>
After all, you are an intelligent woman. <><><>
You know very well that if he cared to, he would never have left you. <>If he cared about you, he would have called to ask!<><><>
And if your feelings mattered to him, he would have tried to fix things before breaking up!<><><>
Don’t give him that satisfaction of going back. <><><>
Because there is nothing to find! <>Your past is part of the past for good reasons. <>You have learned a great lesson from it, and now you are ready to face your present and your future.<><><>
The thing you can do is show him what he lost! <><><>
Make her regret taking you for granted and losing you while remaining that confident, strong and positive woman that you are.<><><>
You don’t have to brag with a new man to show it to him. <>Just live your life as you always have, while keeping a confident smile on your face.<><><>
Show her that your spirit is not broken by staying a good friend with your friends and dancing all night long with girls, which will show her that you are open to new beginnings.<><><>
Revenge is for the weak. <>The only way for him to see what he has lost is to live your life authentically and to the best of his ability.<><><>
He didn’t run over you. <>You have not lost the taste for life.<><><>
You are more open than ever to new opportunities. <>And why ? <>Because you’ve been roasted, and you’re ready to let someone else in.<><><>
But this time, someone whose love will never hurt you.<><><>
No one can say for sure when this will happen. <>It remains in the hands of God.<><><>
But one thing is for sure, when you think deserve the best and you do not lose confidence, you start to see what we had never noticed before.<><><>
You will finally see that you will be much freer now than you have ever been with your ex. <><><>
Finally you will see that its toxic love has given you a third of what you deserve and he was holding you back.<><><>
With him, you were never free and full of hope. <><><>
And now everything seems to be an opportunity for a new and better version of yourself.<><><>
And this is the start of your new life. <>A life in which you will never focus on what is lost, but only on what is to come.<><><>
A life in which you know you will end up finding your happiness because you deserve it.<><><>
I know it’s easy to give up on yourself and cry every night before falling asleep.<><><>
But a strong woman knows that getting up and smiling when nothing is going is the bravest thing she can do.<><><>
She is a woman who will not let a toxic ex kill her. <>She will not shed any tears for him because it would be a waste of time. <><><>
And as tempted as she may be to go back and wonder what he’s up to, she won’t.<><><>
Because deep down, she knows that the sooner she starts looking into the future, the sooner her heart will heal and her mind will forget.<><><>
And one day, she will simply stop worrying about where he is and what he is doing. <>Because his life will be so fulfilled and happy – that nothing toxic will come to his mind!<><><>
And it will be a personal victory a priori modest, but nevertheless really important. <>She will have nothing to do with it!<><><>
And on this, whatever comes to mind is: “It’s over.”<><><>
If I could give you romantic advice, I would tell you never to look back at those who did not know how to appreciate you. <><><>
Why ? <>Because if they knew how to appreciate you, you wouldn’t even have to look back. <>They would always be by your side!<><><>
If at this moment you cross a difficult time, know that you are not alone. <><><>
Know that I am here for you, and that I know how terrible it is to suffer because of an ex who was not worthy of one of your tears.<><><>
It never stopped me from crying an entire river every time I dreamed of her face, and every time I missed her sense of humor. <><><>
But that didn’t mean I was weak, it just showed that I was human.<><><>
And in all this misery, I realized certain things.<><><>
First, you must reach down to be able to rise to this healthy place and revealing where everything suddenly starts to make sense: every tear you shed, every argument you have crossed and every moment of anger made you explode.<><><>
All the missed opportunities to fix things and all the treatment he inflicted on you. <><><>
Over time, all of these little things begin to reveal an overview that shows you that the current situation is exactly as it should be.<><><>
As difficult as it may seem to understand all of this now, I promise you it will make more sense in just a few weeks. <><><>
Unfortunately, you have to go through all the stages of mourning before you get to this good place – but it will happen for sure.<><><>
What I am trying to tell you is this: if the bottom of your heart you KNOW that the break was the best decision for you, be proud of yourself and stop doubting.<><><>
After all, you are an intelligent woman. <><><>
You know very well that if he cared to, he would never have left you. <>If he cared about you, he would have called to ask!<><><>
And if your feelings mattered to him, he would have tried to fix things before breaking up!<><><>
Don’t give him that satisfaction of going back. <><><>
Because there is nothing to find! <>Your past is part of the past for good reasons. <>You have learned a great lesson from it, and now you are ready to face your present and your future.<><><>
The thing you can do is show him what he lost! <><><>
Make her regret taking you for granted and losing you while remaining that confident, strong and positive woman that you are.<><><>
You don’t have to brag with a new man to show it to him. <>Just live your life as you always have, while keeping a confident smile on your face.<><><>
Show her that your spirit is not broken by staying a good friend with your friends and dancing all night long with girls, which will show her that you are open to new beginnings.<><><>
Revenge is for the weak. <>The only way for him to see what he has lost is to live your life authentically and to the best of his ability.<><><>
He didn’t run over you. <>You have not lost the taste for life.<><><>
You are more open than ever to new opportunities. <>And why ? <>Because you’ve been roasted, and you’re ready to let someone else in.<><><>
But this time, someone whose love will never hurt you.<><><>
No one can say for sure when this will happen. <>It remains in the hands of God.<><><>
But one thing is for sure, when you think deserve the best and you do not lose confidence, you start to see what we had never noticed before.<><><>
You will finally see that you will be much freer now than you have ever been with your ex. <><><>
Finally you will see that its toxic love has given you a third of what you deserve and he was holding you back.<><><>
With him, you were never free and full of hope. <><><>
And now everything seems to be an opportunity for a new and better version of yourself.<><><>
And this is the start of your new life. <>A life in which you will never focus on what is lost, but only on what is to come.<><><>
A life in which you know you will end up finding your happiness because you deserve it.<><><>
I know it’s easy to give up on yourself and cry every night before falling asleep.<><><>
But a strong woman knows that getting up and smiling when nothing is going is the bravest thing she can do.<><><>
She is a woman who will not let a toxic ex kill her. <>She will not shed any tears for him because it would be a waste of time. <><><>
And as tempted as she may be to go back and wonder what he’s up to, she won’t.<><><>
Because deep down, she knows that the sooner she starts looking into the future, the sooner her heart will heal and her mind will forget.<><><>
And one day, she will simply stop worrying about where he is and what he is doing. <>Because his life will be so fulfilled and happy – that nothing toxic will come to his mind!<><><>
And it will be a personal victory a priori modest, but nevertheless really important. <>She will have nothing to do with it!<><><>
And on this, whatever comes to mind is: “It’s over.”<><><>
