7 things to do when he refuses to commit, but also to free yourself from your commitment


One of the most disturbing things that can happen in a romantic relationship is when a man refuses to commit, but also to release you from your engagement.<><>

You wonder why he suddenly rejects you and find no reason to explain his current attitude.<><>

So you think all day long about what to do, but whatever you do is in vain.<><>

Know that any problem has its solution and that with a few efforts, you will be able to solve yours.<><>

So here is what you can do if your companion refuses to commit and also release you from your commitment.<><>

1. Talk openly<><><>

I know you don’t really want it and it’s a real thorn in your side, but if you really want to know what’s going on, it’s best to ask your companion the question directly.<><>

Let him know that you are not feeling well and that you want to resolve this problem that concerns you both.<><>

Explain that a true relationship is a question of commitment and that it is not just a matter of sitting on a chair at the same time.<><>

Most importantly, tell him that if he doesn’t change, you will eventually leave him.<><>

2. Show Him that you’re going<><><>

A man does not realize what he has until he has lost it. <>So why not show her that you have other options and that you too can go?<><>

Do not let him believe that he is the only one, because a lot of men would be ready to embrace the ground on which you walk and to engage with you without having to think twice.<><>

Show him what he will lose if you leave and give him time to think about it.<><>

3. Let him think again<><><>

If you pressurize it and suffocate it, it will leave you in less time than it takes to say phew.<><>

But if you show him that you are an exceptional woman and want to give him a little time to think about you, he will act differently.<><>

Perhaps he will realize all the efforts you are making to make your relationship work and that you give him enough time to think.<><>

This will cause him to come back to you, to at least try to see how things would go if he decided to commit to you.<><>

4. Tell him that you will not deprive him of his independence<><><>

Perhaps your companion is just afraid of committing, but on the other hand, he is far too loose to free you from your commitment.<><>

He plays with you, demanding that you be there when he wants to, but refusing to be there when you need him.<><>

And that’s why you need to resolve things as quickly as possible. <>Tell him that he doesn’t have to worry about losing his independence by being in a relationship with you.<><>

Tell him that he won’t lose his manhood, just because that’s what people think of men who get involved.<><>

If he realizes that his life will not change, perhaps he will change his mind.<><>

5. Make yourself a priority<><><>

Show him that you are your own priority and that you will no longer let him take you by boat.<><>

Show him that you can live without him and that you have no plans to wait any longer.<><>

When he understands that you are sure of what you are saying and thinking, he will stop and think.<><>

He will see what kind of person he is losing and maybe he will treat you better than before.<><>

In the end, making it your priority will never give you the same pleasure as that felt by making yourself a priority.<><>

6. Set limits<><><>

When you realize you’re not where you want to be with a man, you have to set limits.<><>

You have to take the plunge and make him understand that you too have rights.<><>

He cannot just take you by boat, manipulate you, control you and give you nothing in return.<><>

It is not love and certainly not a healthy relationship either.<><>

So you should tell him that he has to decide what to expect from you.<><>

If you don’t have the same outlook on life, it’s time to go.<><>

7. Say stop<><><>

Often times, guys think our threats are not serious, because they find a way to trick us momentarily.<><>

When you say you are going to end your relationship, they think it is just words.<><>

So the best way to make him react is to actually leave him.<><>

Show him that because of his behavior, he has lost you and that you do not plan to spend your life with a man unable to know what he wants.<><>

After understanding that you are serious, he will undoubtedly try to win you back.<><>

One of the most disturbing things that can happen in a romantic relationship is when a man refuses to commit, but also to release you from your engagement.<><>

You wonder why he suddenly rejects you and find no reason to explain his current attitude.<><>

So you think all day long about what to do, but whatever you do is in vain.<><>

Know that any problem has its solution and that with a few efforts, you will be able to solve yours.<><>

So here is what you can do if your companion refuses to commit and also release you from your commitment.<><>

1. Talk openly<><><>

I know you don’t really want it and it’s a real thorn in your side, but if you really want to know what’s going on, it’s best to ask your companion the question directly.<><>

Let him know that you are not feeling well and that you want to resolve this problem that concerns you both.<><>

Explain that a true relationship is a question of commitment and that it is not just a matter of sitting on a chair at the same time.<><>

Most importantly, tell him that if he doesn’t change, you will eventually leave him.<><>

2. Show Him that you’re going<><><>

A man does not realize what he has until he has lost it. <>So why not show her that you have other options and that you too can go?<><>

Do not let him believe that he is the only one, because a lot of men would be ready to embrace the ground on which you walk and to engage with you without having to think twice.<><>

Show him what he will lose if you leave and give him time to think about it.<><>

3. Let him think again<><><>

If you pressurize it and suffocate it, it will leave you in less time than it takes to say phew.<><>

But if you show him that you are an exceptional woman and want to give him a little time to think about you, he will act differently.<><>

Perhaps he will realize all the efforts you are making to make your relationship work and that you give him enough time to think.<><>

This will cause him to come back to you, to at least try to see how things would go if he decided to commit to you.<><>

4. Tell him that you will not deprive him of his independence<><><>

Perhaps your companion is just afraid of committing, but on the other hand, he is far too loose to free you from your commitment.<><>

He plays with you, demanding that you be there when he wants to, but refusing to be there when you need him.<><>

And that’s why you need to resolve things as quickly as possible. <>Tell him that he doesn’t have to worry about losing his independence by being in a relationship with you.<><>

Tell him that he won’t lose his manhood, just because that’s what people think of men who get involved.<><>

If he realizes that his life will not change, perhaps he will change his mind.<><>

5. Make yourself a priority<><><>

Show him that you are your own priority and that you will no longer let him take you by boat.<><>

Show him that you can live without him and that you have no plans to wait any longer.<><>

When he understands that you are sure of what you are saying and thinking, he will stop and think.<><>

He will see what kind of person he is losing and maybe he will treat you better than before.<><>

In the end, making it your priority will never give you the same pleasure as that felt by making yourself a priority.<><>

6. Set limits<><><>

When you realize you’re not where you want to be with a man, you have to set limits.<><>

You have to take the plunge and make him understand that you too have rights.<><>

He cannot just take you by boat, manipulate you, control you and give you nothing in return.<><>

It is not love and certainly not a healthy relationship either.<><>

So you should tell him that he has to decide what to expect from you.<><>

If you don’t have the same outlook on life, it’s time to go.<><>

7. Say stop<><><>

Often times, guys think our threats are not serious, because they find a way to trick us momentarily.<><>

When you say you are going to end your relationship, they think it is just words.<><>

So the best way to make him react is to actually leave him.<><>

Show him that because of his behavior, he has lost you and that you do not plan to spend your life with a man unable to know what he wants.<><>

After understanding that you are serious, he will undoubtedly try to win you back.<><>


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