Breaking up with someone is always difficult. <>Even when it comes to the most normal guy, it still sucks.<><>
The end of a large part of your life comes, and especially if it is you who is left, this can be difficult to accept.<><>
Like any other big change in your life, you have to know how to get used to it.<><>
But when the guy who breaks up with you is a narcissistic pervert, things get even more muddled and destructive.<><>
A narcissist never makes anything easy. <>He’s the one who needs to be in control, so whatever happens, you will end up being the victim of his vicious intentions.<><>
As I mentioned above, narcissists cannot bear not having control.<><>
And as soon as they feel they are losing their grip on you, they will resort to drastic measures.<><>
If he feels that you are trying to end things or that you have started to challenge him, he will want to make sure he is the first to do so.<><>
And not in a friendly way. <>It will be from his devious plans and it will hurt like anything.<><>
If you have the impression that your narcissist is about to drop you, be ready for one of the following 4 scenarios.<><>
Here are his most common methods for letting you know he’s done with you. <>Consider it a warning!<><>
1. already has a reserve section in place and it will suddenly leave you, without any explanation<><>
When a narcissist is certain that he will finish things with you, he makes sure to have another bed partner already in place.<><>
There should always be options in case things go wrong. <>And in this case, you will have no warning and no explanation.<><>
His mood will suddenly become unpredictable, he will be very irritable and he will have an unpleasant attitude towards you.<><>
Remember that narcissists do not have the capacity to feel shame and regret, therefore whether you make a scene or not will not make a difference.<><>
He will leave you with no excuses and will make sure that you know he already has another daughter to replace you.<><>
And it will be the end between you and your narcissist. <>Your relationship will end as brutally as it started.<><>
2. He will make you pass for the bad guy by verbally abusing you and making you bear all the responsibility on your back<><>
His plan will be so devious that you won’t know what hit you. <>First, it will cause minor annoyance to make you look really crappy.<><>
He will make sure to let you know how bad he thinks you are and he will not choose his words.<><>
Then he’ll push you to the limit by doing things he knows you don’t like just to drive you crazy and use them against you.<><>
He will make you look like a crazy, unstable bad girlfriend and he will pretend to be a poor guy who has fallen into your web of lies and deception.<><>
You will not even understand how he does that he will already be gone, having reached his goal.<><>
You will feel like you have done something wrong, when what really happened was that he manipulated you and left with your head held high. <>As he had planned to do from the start.<><>
3. He will play hot and cold to the point of chasing you<><>
His emotions (the ones he claims to have) will overflow everywhere.<><>
One day, he will adore you and cover you with love, and the next day, he will be furious because of the crumbs you left in the kitchen.<><>
You will not know what to do, because his behavior will worsen drastically and the smallest details will push him to extremes.<><>
The atmosphere will be extremely toxic and you will not be able to endure it for long. <>While it is flourishing there, you will have to put an end to it and then that’s it.<><>
So it will be over and he won’t have to pull the trigger. <>You will have done it for him.<><>
4. He will use s ex as a tool to demoralize you<><>
Sex will become a powerful weapon in its arsenal. <>He will use it against you in any way possible. <>And if your sex life is fulfilled, it will be particularly difficult.<><>
He will refuse you sex when he sees that you really want it.<><>
And when he notices that you are too tired to function, he will ask you if you are in the mood (knowing that you are NOT in the mood).<><>
He will make you beg him to sleep with you, something you never thought you would do.<><>
But his behavior will leave you no choice. <>Although it is a toxic waste of time, it knows how to give you pleasure.<><>
And damn it, you’ll want it for the last time. <>And that’s how he will take it out on you.<><>
Your ego will take a big hit every time it says “No” and it will use it every second.<><>
And once he’s done having fun, he will be done with you, leaving you with the consequences of his actions. <>And this will fear. <>Deeply.<><>
Breaking up with someone is always difficult. <>Even when it comes to the most normal guy, it still sucks.<><>
The end of a large part of your life comes, and especially if it is you who is left, this can be difficult to accept.<><>
Like any other big change in your life, you have to know how to get used to it.<><>
But when the guy who breaks up with you is a narcissistic pervert, things get even more muddled and destructive.<><>
A narcissist never makes anything easy. <>He’s the one who needs to be in control, so whatever happens, you will end up being the victim of his vicious intentions.<><>
As I mentioned above, narcissists cannot bear not having control.<><>
And as soon as they feel they are losing their grip on you, they will resort to drastic measures.<><>
If he feels that you are trying to end things or that you have started to challenge him, he will want to make sure he is the first to do so.<><>
And not in a friendly way. <>It will be from his devious plans and it will hurt like anything.<><>
If you have the impression that your narcissist is about to drop you, be ready for one of the following 4 scenarios.<><>
Here are his most common methods for letting you know he’s done with you. <>Consider it a warning!<><>
1. already has a reserve section in place and it will suddenly leave you, without any explanation<><>
When a narcissist is certain that he will finish things with you, he makes sure to have another bed partner already in place.<><>
There should always be options in case things go wrong. <>And in this case, you will have no warning and no explanation.<><>
His mood will suddenly become unpredictable, he will be very irritable and he will have an unpleasant attitude towards you.<><>
Remember that narcissists do not have the capacity to feel shame and regret, therefore whether you make a scene or not will not make a difference.<><>
He will leave you with no excuses and will make sure that you know he already has another daughter to replace you.<><>
And it will be the end between you and your narcissist. <>Your relationship will end as brutally as it started.<><>
2. He will make you pass for the bad guy by verbally abusing you and making you bear all the responsibility on your back<><>
His plan will be so devious that you won’t know what hit you. <>First, it will cause minor annoyance to make you look really crappy.<><>
He will make sure to let you know how bad he thinks you are and he will not choose his words.<><>
Then he’ll push you to the limit by doing things he knows you don’t like just to drive you crazy and use them against you.<><>
He will make you look like a crazy, unstable bad girlfriend and he will pretend to be a poor guy who has fallen into your web of lies and deception.<><>
You will not even understand how he does that he will already be gone, having reached his goal.<><>
You will feel like you have done something wrong, when what really happened was that he manipulated you and left with your head held high. <>As he had planned to do from the start.<><>
3. He will play hot and cold to the point of chasing you<><>
His emotions (the ones he claims to have) will overflow everywhere.<><>
One day, he will adore you and cover you with love, and the next day, he will be furious because of the crumbs you left in the kitchen.<><>
You will not know what to do, because his behavior will worsen drastically and the smallest details will push him to extremes.<><>
The atmosphere will be extremely toxic and you will not be able to endure it for long. <>While it is flourishing there, you will have to put an end to it and then that’s it.<><>
So it will be over and he won’t have to pull the trigger. <>You will have done it for him.<><>
4. He will use s ex as a tool to demoralize you<><>
Sex will become a powerful weapon in its arsenal. <>He will use it against you in any way possible. <>And if your sex life is fulfilled, it will be particularly difficult.<><>
He will refuse you sex when he sees that you really want it.<><>
And when he notices that you are too tired to function, he will ask you if you are in the mood (knowing that you are NOT in the mood).<><>
He will make you beg him to sleep with you, something you never thought you would do.<><>
But his behavior will leave you no choice. <>Although it is a toxic waste of time, it knows how to give you pleasure.<><>
And damn it, you’ll want it for the last time. <>And that’s how he will take it out on you.<><>
Your ego will take a big hit every time it says “No” and it will use it every second.<><>
And once he’s done having fun, he will be done with you, leaving you with the consequences of his actions. <>And this will fear. <>Deeply.<><>
